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1. Dating

In your 20s, you’re looking for a fun date.

Especially in your young 20s, dating can be simply a form of entertainment. The only qualifications for an ideal date at this age is someone you can enjoy a great concert with

In your 30s, you’re looking to settle down.

By the time you’re in your 30s, however, having sex with someone you’re dating is less of a source of stress or anxiety. Even if you don’t sleep with someone until you’re committed, by the time you’re 30 you are much more likely to know what you want in bed and are less shy about how to get it.

4. Appearance


In your 20s, you want someone hot.

Dating in your 20s also means looking for someone attractive. Before you really know the sacrifice and friction that comes with a long-term relationship, looks can mean everything.







In your 30s, you want character.


In your 30s looks might be a consideration, but you are more likely to be drawn to qualities you know make you a better person. A hot significant other is delightful, but it is no indication of character.

5. Passion

In your 20s, you want fiery connections.

6. Marriage

In your 20s, you’re quick to think marriage could be on the cards for you.

In your 30s, you want to spend much more time with someone before you can even think about settling down.

7. Direction

In your 20s, you want similar interests.

Another thing you are likely to look for when dating in your 20s is someone with the same interests. It’s just easier to have a conversation over beers if you like the same bands, TV shows, and celebrities.

In your 30s, you want someone with the same goals.

When dating in your 30s, however, having all the same interests is less important. Now, you are more likely looking for someone with similar goals so your relationship can get you somewhere. You still love it when your significant other is passionate about the same things, but what’s really crucial in a relationship is a common drive and outlook.

8. Acceptance

In your 20s, you strive for a better body and attitude so you’ll be more acceptable.

In your 30s, you know your prospective partner will love you for who you are.

9. Commitment

In your 20s, you want someone caring.

When you’re dating in your 20s it’s also common to search for someone who treats you nicely. Coming fresh from dating in high school, you are all too familiar with backstabbing and false promises. Someone who is considerate makes all the difference.

In your 30s, you want someone who keeps caring.

10. Love as a Verb

In your 20s, you want someone to love.

When you’re dating in your 20s you are likely to want to fall in love. Searching for that first person to really capture your heart is a fresh and thrilling experience.

In your 30s, you want someone who knows how to love you.

Though love is crucial to a healthy relationship, when you’re dating in your 30s you know love is not enough. If you are going to be with a significant other for any length of time you will need someone who wants to work with your quirks and shortcomings. Passion and compatibility are still important, but someone who works to treat you exactly the way you need is priceless.

11. Friendship

In your 20s, you’re blinded by love.







In your 30s, you value relationships that come from a solid friendship.

12. Growing Together

In your 20s, you want someone enjoyable.

Dating when you’re younger also means looking for someone whose company you enjoy. Intelligent conversation, humor, and attitude are all essential to catch your attention at this age.

In your 30s, you want someone who makes you better.

Comparatively, by the time you are 30 you are more likely to look for someone whose company makes you a better person. By now, you have learned that many people can help you have a good time, but very few people truly move you forward and closer to the person you want to be.




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